Fr Ogundipe Sdv

 Do not receive the Ash on your forehead until you read this to understand what the Church teaches about Ash Wednesday  Fr Lawrence Ogundipe, SDV On a quiet Ash Wednesday afternoon, two children lingered in the church compound, still marked with the dark sign of the cross on their foreheads. They played and laughed, innocent and carefree, as children always do, unaware of the weight of the sacred moment they had just shared. In the middle of their play, one child, without much thought, brushed his hand across his friend’s forehead and wiped away the ashes. Suddenly, the other child froze. His face fell, not in anger, but in genuine distress. With the seriousness only a child can summon, he cried out, “You have wiped away my Lent!” Before his friend could even apologize, the boy turned and ran back into the church. He made his way straight to the priest, his small heart convinced of a great loss. With all sincerity, he asked to receive what he called “another Lent,” believing t...

Fr Lawrence Ogundipe SDV Every Good Friday across Nigeria, our parishes and communities gather to witness the Passion Play. It is one of the most powerful moments in our Lenten journey. Drums fall silent. The church grows still. The faithful come with hearts ready to remember the passion of Christ. But we must gently remind ourselves, especially our vibrant and gifted youth, that the Passion Play is not a stage for comedy. It is not a place for exaggeration or careless acting. It is the sacred retelling of the suffering, death, and saving love of Christ. When the Passion Play is done prayerfully and reverently, it becomes more than acting. It becomes preaching without a pulpit. Many people who may not listen to a long sermon will watch the Passion and be deeply moved. Some will remember their sins. Some will feel the call to confession. Some will quietly decide to return to God. This is the spiritual power of the Passion Play. My dear young people, you are blessed with energy, creativi...

  Fr Lawrence Ogundipe SDV Shrove Tuesday is the day before Ash Wednesday, the last day of Ordinary Time before the Church enters the season of Lent. The word shrove comes from the old English word shrive, which means to confess one’s sins and receive absolution. Traditionally, it was a day when Christians prepared their hearts for Lent through repentance, confession, and spiritual renewal. In many places it is also known as Pancake Tuesday or Mardi Gras. The festive element developed because people used up rich foods like eggs, butter, and sugar before the fasting discipline of Lent began. But beneath the customs, the deeper meaning is spiritual preparation. The Spiritual Meaning Shrove Tuesday invites the faithful to pause and examine their lives before entering the penitential season of Lent. It is like standing at the door of the desert. The Church gently asks each believer Are you ready to return to the Lord Are you ready to begin again It is a day that reminds us that Lent is...

 THE PRIEST IS A HUMAN NOT A SPIRIT Fr Ogiator CDA Introduction My dear brothers, we gather not as angels disguised in cassocks but as men who have been looked upon by mercy. Before the altar and before the people, the priest stands as one who has been chosen, called and consecrated. Yet he remains profoundly human. This recollection invites us to return to a simple and liberating truth. The Catholic priest is not a spirit pretending to be human. He is a human person raised, healed and strengthened by the grace of God. Forgetting this truth wounds the priest and quietly harms the people entrusted to him. The Danger of Pretending to Be a Spirit There is a subtle temptation in priestly life to appear permanently strong, permanently prayerful, permanently in control. This temptation is often rewarded by applause and silence. But it slowly hollows the priest from within. Assuming to be a spirit leads to emotional repression, spiritual pride and moral vulnerability. The Directory for th...

 A Silent war begins when a Priest no longer trust his brothers My dear brothers, I speak to you from my experience, as a brother struggling among you, carrying the same oil of ordination and the same fragile humanity. There are moments in our priestly journey when the wound is not directed inward, and not even primarily toward the people we serve, but toward one another. There are moments when a priest discovers, sometimes painfully and sometimes quietly, that he no longer trusts his brother priests. This reality is rarely admitted aloud, yet it can deeply shape the way we live our priesthood. When trust among priests is weakened, something essential in the Body of Christ suffers. The priesthood was never meant to be lived in isolation. From the day of our ordination, we were inserted into a presbyterate, not as independent contractors of grace, but as brothers sharing one priesthood in Christ. Presbyterorum Ordinis reminds us that priests form one presbyterate and are bound toget...

  Fr Lawrence Ogundipe, SDV Historical Roots and Theological Foundations One of the beautiful and sometimes misunderstood traditions of the Catholic Church is the celebration of the *eve* of certain solemnities, such as Christmas Eve, Easter Vigil, and the vigil of major feasts. For many Catholics, the celebration on the night before appears almost as important as the feast day itself. This practice is not accidental, nor is it merely cultural. It is deeply rooted in history, Sacred Scripture, and the Church’s theological understanding of time, worship, and salvation. The Biblical Understanding of Time: “Evening Came, and Morning Followed” The foundation of celebrating a feast from its eve is found first in Sacred Scripture. In the Book of Genesis, the rhythm of creation is described repeatedly with the phrase: Evening came, and morning followed” (Genesis 1). In the biblical worldview, a day does not begin at midnight, as in modern civil reckoning, but at sunset. This Jewish unders...

DOCTRINAL NOTE ON MARIAN TITLES: MOTHER OF THE FAITHFUL, NOT CO-REDEMPTRIX Implications for Marian Devotion and Our Traditional Prayer Booklets Fr Lawrence Ogundipe SDV The Dicastery for the Doctrine of the Faith has recently offered an important doctrinal clarification on the way the Church understands and speaks about the role of the Blessed Virgin Mary in the mystery of salvation. While reaffirming her unique place as the Mother of God and the most exalted member of the redeemed, the document emphasizes that the faithful should refer to Mary as “Mother of the Faithful,” not “Co-redemptrix.” This clarification is not a demotion of Mary in Catholic devotion. Rather, it aims to protect the central truth that Jesus Christ alone is Redeemer and that Mary’s role, although singular and incomparable, always remains subordinate and dependent on the saving work of her Son. This doctrinal note helps the Church speak with precision, avoid misunderstandings, and ensure that our Marian devotion r...

  A SUMMARY  on “Una Caro. In Praise of Monogamy by Fr Lawrence Ogundipe SDV *Una Caro* is a doctrinal reflection that explains why the Catholic Church upholds monogamous marriage as the original and God-given form of human love.  The document begins by grounding monogamy in Scripture, showing how God created man and woman to become “one flesh,” a union marked by exclusivity, permanence, and mutual belonging. It explains that this unity is not just a social arrangement but a divine plan that reveals the dignity of both spouses. The document highlights that Jesus restored marriage to its original beauty by rejecting divorce and selfishness, teaching that true love is faithful, self-giving, and lifelong. Monogamy, therefore, is not simply a European or Western idea but a universal human good that reflects God’s own faithful love for His people. It is also the form of marriage that best expresses the sacrament, which mirrors Christ’s exclusive love for the Church. The text a...

 Infidelity in the Catholic Church: A Deep Examination Fr Lawrence Ogundipe SDV  The issue of infidelity has been a significant concern within the Catholic Church for centuries. It is not just a matter of personal betrayal between spouses, but also a theological, moral, and ecclesiastical dilemma that the Church has grappled with throughout its history. The Catholic Church’s teachings on marriage, fidelity, and the sanctity of the sacrament provide a framework for understanding the gravity of infidelity, both in terms of its impact on individuals and the community.  The Catholic Church’s Teachings on Marriage In Catholic theology, marriage is considered a sacrament, a sacred covenant between a man and a woman that reflects the union between Christ and the Church. According to the *Catechism of the Catholic Church* (CCC), marriage is not only a natural institution but a divine one. It is "a partnership of the whole of life, ordered toward the good of the spouses and the pr...